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Happy Queer Slut: the Core Desire Circle

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As queer people, we have the opportunity to live from our Core Desire.

Core Desire is the embodiment and expression of our gender and sexuality from our essence, in relationship with the Earth, all of life, and each other.

When we live from Core Desire, we are sourced in vitality, pleasure, and our power within.

 

The path to claim this for ourselves is one of both releasing and embracing.

We must release, deconstruct, and compost the norms of heterosexuality, whiteness, cisgenderness, racism, and patriarchy that live within us.

These norms are like a heavy set of awkward clothes forced upon as at birth, that we are told are everything we should be, yet never feel right.

At the same time, we long to be ourselves.  We long to know ourselves, and to know each other, in all of our fabulous beauty.

The conversation that we need to have, both within our own selves, and with others on the path, requires curiosity, courage, kindness and discernment.  

 

This conversation invites us to come home to our bodies, to release the burdens of hate and fear, to learn to tend to both our pleasure and our pain with love, compassion, and tenacity.

To become that home to ourselves is a process of rebirth, one where we release old stories about who we are, as we simultaneously nourish the bright flame of our essence--our Core Desire--so that we can have the intimacy, love, connection, and pleasure we long for.

 

The Core Desire Circle is a 6 month journey devoted to

  • Disengaging with bullshit stories
  • Recreating our own erotically empowered life
  • And falling in love with our bodies, our pleasure, and our unique sexual and gender identities

 

Happy Queer Sluts come in all colors of the rainbow. 

We are lesbian, gay, bisexual, pansexual, asexual. 

We are cisgender and transgender, genderfluid and flux, non-binary and agender. 

We are shy and loud, kinky and vanilla, polyamorous and monogamous. 

We have always known we are queer, and we are just figuring it out. 

And we belong, together, treasuring our diversity and holding common values of kindness, curiosity, courage, consent, connection, and pleasure.

 

We reclaim slut because our true sexual desire will always be beyond the narrow, constricting norms of the patriarchy.
 
We reclaim queer because we delight in our differences, in the complexity of our love and desire, and we want to belong, not fit in.
 
We reclaim happy because we were born for love and joy, as we are, as we create more and more space for that in the world.

 

 

You are welcome if you’ve known you’re queer AF since you popped out into the world. 

You are welcome if you are just figuring it out and have more questions than answers.

You are welcome if you are someone who has typically been excluded or marginalized from the community itself (for instance, bi/pan folks in “straight” appearing relationships, or folks who have not yet had a queer relationship, or kinky folks, or sex workers).

You are welcome if your identity is clear but you know it’s time to go deeper into your own embodiment, your sense of pleasure and aliveness within.


You. Are. Welcome.

You. Are. Beautiful.

You. Deserve. Happy. Love. And. Sex.

 

And you are invited into the circle, into belonging, into a space designed to help you to both heal the wounded parts, and lean into the parts ready for pleasure and exploration.

  

Each month we dive into a theme that reconnects us with our pleasure and wisdom:

Your Connective Magic Rhythm:  Reweaving the Sacred - Reconnecting to rhythms of the Earth  - Shifting from feeling out of sync and isolated to deeply connected, soothed, and grounded.  CALM. A friendly universe.

The True Story of Your Path: Coming Home to the Body - Creating relationship with your body so s/he stops betraying and hurting you - Love what you see in the mirror, more and more - Feel better, sleep better - Feel at home in this body without changing him

Body-licious: Erotic Vitality - From blah to juicy - Turned on in all of life - Walk around ‘wet’

Juicy Juicy: Integrating Sensuality & Spirituality - Create good stuff with the creator energy that lives in your sex

Sexy Miraculous:  Gettin’ it on with God/dess aka All That Is aka The Mystery

Euphoria:  Aligned energized delighted - Feel fully alive - Living from the wisdom and delicious of your Pleasure Compass - Guided by euphoria and erotic intelligence - Sourced in your Core Desire

 

This circle is non-religious but grounded in the sacredness of the Earth, human community and the vibrancy of all life. All paths are welcome, including atheists.

 

 

We are here, in community, because we learn from both our diversity and our sameness.  As such, this circle is not just a sharing of my wisdom, but other teachers and healers that I love and respect, as well as the teachers and healers of the non-human world. 

 

Are you ready to embrace your fabulous, sensual, gorgeous self, in a community of other fabulous, sensual, gorgeous queer folks on the same path? 

  

Your Happy Queer Slut Circle includes each month:

  • Teaching and spot-coaching by me on current theme
  • Intuitive reading by my cosmic witch twinsie Allyson Seal, aka The Art & Sex Witch, my go-to for channeled wisdom that actually helps you show up more fully in your day-to-day life
  • Guest Teachers expanding the perspectives of our theme
  • Heart Circle with Cacao:  Space for both questions and being witnessed in your unfolding journey.

 

Even More Yumminess & Resources for You:

  • Custom ritual kit from my Soul Serpent Apothecary to ground and nourish your practice at home
  • Community group on Facebook to deepen the sharing, ask more questions, and share what moves you
  • Cacao for our ceremonies from Cuatros Manos y Cinco Volcanos, a BIPOC run farm on the Big Island of Hawai’i   

 

Know You're In? Grab These Early Bird Specials! *Note date shift*

  • Claim your place by Wednesday August 18th and receive a Coming Home to Ourselves 90 min Cacao Ceremony with me 
  • Early bird circle:  Working with Flower Essences & More to Support Your Journey.  Thursday September 1st, 5:30-7:30 Pacific

 

This is an intimate circle of 12 people max, to create a dynamic, vibrant container in which to grow, explore, heal, and transform

  • Early Bird Circle: Thursday, 9/1 at 5:30 Pacific
  • Opening Circle:  Sunday, August 7th, 1-4 PM Pacific
  • Weekly Circle:  5:30-7:30 Pacific,   9/8/2022 - 3/2/2023
  • Closing Circle:  Sunday, March 5th, 1-4 PM Pacific

 

Our monthly schedule is as follows:

  • 1st week:  Teaching & Spot-Coaching with Ursula
  • 2nd week:  Tarot Reading with Allyson Seal, The Art & Sex Witch, day/time TBD 
  • 3rd week: Guest Teacher
  • 4th week:  Heart Circle with Cacao,

 

We will be using Zoom to livestream into the dedicated Facebook group; recordings will also be posted on Loom for ease of access.

 

Payment Options: 

  • Payment in full: $3795
  • Split Payment: 2 x $1999
  • 6 Payments:  Deposit of $199 and 6 x $666
  • 10 Payments:  Deposit of $199 and 10 x $410
  • 6 & 10 Payments:  After your deposit I will set you up with a Paypal subscription for the remainder
  • There are a few partial scholarships (50%); if this would make the circle accessible please contact me.

     

I am happy to answer any questions so that you know this is right for you!

You are invited to schedule a connection call with me.

Also, come join our free facebook group, Happy Queer Slut, the Community.

 


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