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Initiated Masculine Set

Initiated Masculine Set

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Initiated Masculine Collection

The essential nature of the Divine Masculine is not to impose power, but to bring into being and form the vast potential of the Divine Feminine.  Organic form emerges out of the fertile soup of chaos, and new life takes shape, in endless form.


The Initiated Masculine Essences ignite and call forth this in all of us, facilitating greater ease in our evolution and the much needed metabolism of the cishetero white supremacist patriarchy.   True leadership, loving humility, fierce love, true embodiment.


This set includes

  • Christos ~ Kenosis Essence
  • The King ~ Generative Sovereignty
  • The Warrior ~ Fierce Love, Deep Alignment
  • The Magician ~ Align & Manifest
  • The Lover ~ Embodied Love
  • Christos Frankincense Anointing Honey



Christos ~ Kenosis Essence
Energy Signature of Red Jasper, Labradorite, Essences of Sophia, Clear Channel, & Initiated Masculine (King, Warrior & Lover), F# Quartz Singing Bowl.  Full Moon Aquarius, 8/13/19, Solo Tantric Ritual. 
Frankincense & rose infused brandy, raw honey & spring water base.* 1 oz

We are living out the dying breath of toxic masculinity, which twists the power of the sacred Word into destruction, not creation. The energy of the Christos itself was never meant to be dogma, but a living water of love to quench the thirst, warm the bones and illuminate the heart light of each weary soul it touches. 

Patriarchy tried to rob us of this sacred masculine energy, but it cannot be contained. It is rising up within so many of us, and the deeper we root into Sophia, into the very matter that has been slandered as inert, sinful, and base, the more we are filled with this heart light, and it pours out of us as a blessing, an ecstasy, an offering.

Kenosis is this sacred emptying, practiced by Jesus, Mary Magdalene and mystics across time and cultures. It is the inclusion of all parts of ourselves that have been rejected, and the refinement of fear, doubt, and hate into trust, surrender, and a passionate but tender love.

Kenosis is the ancient tantric practice of filling and emptying, of rejecting nothing and transforming all experience back into its essential radiance. 

This elixir was created in solo tantric ritual during the Full Moon in Aquarius. It unites and integrates my Initiated Masculine essences of King, Warrior and Lover with Clear Channel (the radiance of Christ light), and grounds it all into the embodied wisdom of Sophia. I used an F# quartz singing bowl (heart chakra) to elevate and deepen the energy, and included the energy signature of Red Jasper and Labradorite. 

Christos ~ Kenosis is medicine to call the Divine Masculine home, into a generative, loving relationship with the feminine and all life on Earth. It brings protection, vibrancy and endurance; stimulates health and rebirth; increases our sensitivity to the consciousness of the Earth and the matter of our bodies. 

This elixir supports us to fill up with divine energy in a way that is healthy and pleasurable for our body, and to use that energy to make right what has caused harm, whether is is within ourselves or without. This is a generous energy, one that will nourish and fill us; from this filled up place our love can generously, ecstatically, pour forth into the world.


The King: Generative Sovereignty
Energy Signature of Umbellularia californica (California Bay Laurel), King Stone (Lia Fail, Tara, Ireland), Rose Quartz, Black Tourmaline, & Carnelian. 
Full Moon Cancer.
1 oz, in a base of vanilla & orange peel infused brandy, raw honey & spring water. 

Our world is in dire need of mature masculine leadership.  The King essence calls this forth in us, awakening the cellular memory of the time when to become the king was to be wedded to the land, and the land was understood to be the living embodiment of the Divine Feminine or Goddess.  Kingship as such is in service to--not power over--the land, the people, and all living things.  This is generative sovereignty, a sovereignty that brings fertility, blessing, order, beauty, justice and health to the world.  

Inside each of us, we must become free in order to embody this sovereignty. The King essence frees one’s spirit from the virtual imprisonment of one’s thoughts, memories and the learned patterns of subjugation.  Negativity is gently cleared from all chakras and love, calm and clarity are restored.  

This essence stimulates analytic capability, precision and clear seeing, in harmony with love and spirit.  It promotes receptivity to beauty, art and the written word, enlivens the imagination, balances yin-yang, and heals emotional wounds. It protects against envy, fear and rage, and dispels apathy, laziness, and passivity.  

The King essence is the antidote to toxic masculine power.  Where we have abused power, it helps us return to a place of humility and service, righting what we have wronged and moving forward in goodness.  Where we have given away our power it frees us, supports our healing work, and brings us into alignment with our personal generative sovereignty, so that we may wield our power for love and blessing in the world.

The King essence is both grounding, connecting us to our body as well as the center of the Earth, and expansive, helping us to grow in love and service to the beauty of the world.



The Warrior: Fierce Love, Deep Alignment
Energy Signature of

  • 1st Chakra:  Smoky Quartz & Jet
  • 2nd Chakra: Black Tourmaline & Tiger Eye
  • 3rd Chakra: Black Tourmaline, Red Jasper & Serpentine 
  • 4th Chakra: Amethyst & Jade
  • 5th Chakra: Snowflake Obsidian 
  • 6th Chakra: Tobacco flower essence
  • 7th Chakra: Blue Apatite

Full Moon in Aries
In a base of vanilla & orange peel infused brandy, raw honey & spring water, 1 oz. 

Like the Initiated King, the Initiated Warrior does not wield his power over the Feminine, the young, the old, the sick or weak.  Instead, he draws his power from his rootedness in the Earth, community, and sacred partnership with the Initiated Feminine. 

He has received the Wild Feminine into his core, so that he wields justice with wrath and clarity, but without hatred or wanton violence.

His words are a sword of truth, his body a boundary setter, his mind a servant to the highest good and his hands tools that prefer to shape the world with love, bringing real justice, and only using physical force when absolutely necessary to defend those in need.

This essence:

  • Cleanses each chakra of old, toxic patterns, and nourishes life-giving ways of being and acting.
  • Invokes an alignment deeply rooted in love and service, even as it brings a single minded focus that allows us to release sentimentality, clinging and self serving patterns. 
  • Nourishes and integrates a holistic strength of body, mind and spirit that is dynamic and vital, not rigid
  • Connects us to the fierceness of love that cuts through our fear, stagnation and confusion


The Magician: Align & Manifest
Labradorite, Blue Apatite, Desert Rose (Selenite), Fluorite, Quartz Point, Quartz Crystal Ball, California Buckeye Seed, Lavender Flower. 
Full Moon Eclipse in Scorpio/Blood Moon, May 2022
In a base of vanilla & orange peel infused brandy, raw honey & spring water, 1 oz. 

Full description coming soon.



The Lover: Embodied Love
Energy Signature of Calla Lily (Zantedeschia aethiopica), Pink Magnolia (Magnolia soulangeana), Sourgrass (Oxalis pes-caprae), Rosemary (Rosmarinus officinalis), Cherry Plum (Prunus cerasifera), Rose Quartz, Lapis Lazuli, Green Malachite, Snowflake Obsidian, Jasper, Hematite-included Quartz Point

New Moon Pisces, Solar Eclipse Pisces
In a base of vanilla & orange peel infused brandy, raw honey & spring water, 1 oz. 

I had a dream of a beautiful young man.  He was taking care of a group of small children, who clearly adored him, and the bleachers they were all sitting on had cups stacked in all the spaces not filled by children.  His eyes shone with a gentle, vital light, and his beauty made you grateful to be in his presence, which was filled only with warmth and love, not ego.  

This is the possibility of the mature Lover--one who takes your breath away with his depth of beauty, one who is not just a lover of another woman or man, but of the whole world. What would it take to heal the wounded lover, and bring his light to the world?

The Lover essence clarifies and purifies negative energies, making room for higher energies of love and compassion while also helping us to comfortably integrate those higher vibrations. Where it may have once felt too burdensome or frightening to inhabit our bodies we find new comfort and safety in being embodied. Our vitality increases, as well as our attunement to Eros, creativity and source.  

Where once we may have felt ourselves strangled by the cultural code that says masculinity requires emotional suppression, we find our expression freed and the throat chakra cleared in the process of releasing the old and welcoming the new. Where we have feared losing control or suffered from our own desperate and destructive impulses, we find unconditional love, spiritual surrender, and the guidance and support of a higher power.  

To free the lover we must free the body of the box into which we have shut men and masculine-centered folks.  The Lover essence calls in clarity about sexual identity, sexual self-acceptance, and an individualized integration of masculine and feminine energies.  



Christos Frankincense Anointing Honey
Local Raw Honey, Frankincense (Boswellia spp.) Infused MCT Coconut Oil (oleo-resin), Elixirs of Clear Channel; The King/Generative Sovereignty; The Lover/Embodied Love; The Warrior/Fierce Love, Deep Alignment.  First made during the waxing moon, Holy Week 2018. 2 oz

The potential of the Sacred Word to create and heal the world through love: this is what we invoke with this ritual honey. 

An anointing of the tongue so that our communication can be filled with light, this honey carries a particular healing for the masculine in all of us: that we may move from the immature and entitled to the initiated and potent.  

To speak from the Christos, from the initiated and exalted masculine, is to seed the world with power and love, in a respectful, dynamic and juicy dance with the divine feminine. 

Suggested Use: A taste on the tongue before writing, speaking, prayer and ritual, to bring presence, clarity, love and calm to all communication.